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The person with advanced cancer may have different symptoms at different times. Some symptoms will be a side effect of treatment while others will be caused by the cancer .
If you are concerned about a particular symptom, explain your concern to the treating doctors and nurses.
Nausea is an unpleasant symptom that can be caused by:
If the person with cancer has nausea, he or she does not have to put up with it: tell the doctor or nurse. It is important for them to identify the cause of nausea so the right treatment can be given. Treatments for nausea include:
Some people with advanced cancer experience breathlessness. It can be very unpleasant and may be frightening for the person who is having trouble breathing and those around him or her. Breathlessness may be due to:
The treatment for breathlessness depends on the cause. Simple measures that may help include:
For many people, extreme and constant tiredness (fatigue) can be a significant problem. It can be very upsetting for the person experiencing it and for those around them. Some people say their tiredness is worse than any pain or nausea they experience.
Tiredness can be caused by a range of things such as:
Unfortunately, treating tiredness successfully is not as straightforward as treating some of the other symptoms. It can be very difficult to describe: what one person experiences as extreme fatigue may be simple tiredness for another person. This makes it very difficult for carers to understand what it is like for the person experiencing it and to provide assistance.
I think tiredness is very hard for him and everyone. It is hard for me as well. I feel so frustrated because I can't help and people don't ask, but it is so important to understand it. To know how everyone feels. It affects us all.
You may find yourself 'nagging' because you want your friend or relative to do things like they used to. But then when you stop nagging it feels like you are giving up.
'After a while I stopped nagging, I realised she couldn't do it anymore. She was just too tired all the time.'
Good things to do when the person with cancer is tired:
Tell the doctor or nurse if the person with cancer gets weaker or more fatigued. The cause may be something treatable, like anaemia or a mineral imbalance.
Pain, and the fear of pain, can be frightening. Our fears and misunderstandings about cancer and pain can contribute to less effective pain control.
People with cancer do not necessarily experience severe pain as the cancer progresses. Pain depends on the location of the cancer and its size. If a person does experience pain, in most cases it can be controlled. It may take a little time to find the correct pain-control measure. Pain management is now recognised as a specialised field for doctors and nurses. Palliative care services specialise in pain management.
Pain may come and go. It may be worse on some occasions than others or it may be always present. Generally, pain can be controlled so that it has minimal impact.
There are many ways to manage pain, including:
A combination of these methods may achieve the best results. How and where the pain is felt, and how it affects one's life, can change. It may help to keep a record of what medication has been taken and how effective it was. Regular review by pain-management experts will ensure the best results are achieved.
Pain-relieving drugs (analgesics) may be mild, like aspirin or paracetamol; moderate, like codeine; or relatively strong, like morphine. Pain-relieving drugs may be taken as tablets, other oral mixtures, suppositories, patches and injections.
Other drugs may also be prescribed, like non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) and anti-depressants.
The doctor will aim to find the right drug, dose, frequency for taking the drug and way to take it (for example, tablet or injection), and to control any side effects. This may involve trying one drug at different doses and then trying another drug at different doses, over several days.
Morphine is one of the most common drugs used to control moderate to severe cancer pain. It comes in quick-acting and long-acting form. Morphine has been used for centuries in many different human societies as a pain reliever. Unfortunately, morphine has an undeserved reputation, because some people associate it with drug addiction, and people often think that morphine is only used for people who are dying.
When the doctor said he was going to start my sister on morphine to help the pain I thought it was a gentle way of telling me she only had a short time left.
Morphine causes confusion in some people. This can be very difficult for the carer, especially if the confusion comes on top of existing dementia. This may make caring for the person with cancer at home difficult. Speak to the doctors and nurses if you notice a change in the person's mental state.
This is used when the cancer affects the nerve. This is called neuropathic pain.
A specialist such as an anaesthetist usually does a nerve block procedure. The nerve is 'blocked'—prevented from sending signals to the brain that cause pain to be felt. The nerve is injected with a drug such as local anaesthetic. The method used will depend on the nerve involved and its role in the body.
Nerve block may be used if other pain control methods are unsuccessful. Nerve block is usually used in combination with medications like analgesics or antidepressants.
Chemotherapy, radiotherapy and surgery are used to cure primary cancers. They are also used in advanced cancer to reduce symptoms such as pain.
Chemotherapy can shrink cancer that is causing pain because of its size and location. Radiotherapy can relieve some symptoms, such as headaches caused by increased pressure in the brain due to brain metastases. The number of treatments needed varies but may be fewer than when radiotherapy is used in the treatment of early cancer.
Surgery may be done to improve outcomes from chemotherapy and radiotherapy by reducing the size of the cancer, or it may be used to treat a serious condition like a bowel obstruction that is causing pain.
Lack of appetite is a common problem faced by people with cancer. It can result from the illness, treatment, tiredness, an altered sense of taste, pain, lack of activity, depression, nausea and vomiting.
The person with cancer will go through phases of not wanting to eat for various reasons. These phases may last a few days to weeks or it could become the 'norm' for that person. You are not failing the person in any way if you cannot provide him or her with three meals a day that includes all the food groups. They may be just unable to eat the way they used to.
Aim to provide food that is appealing and appetising. Advice can be obtained from the hospital dietitian, doctor or nurse.
Try not to worry if all the food you have prepared is not eaten. Perhaps next time a little more will be eaten.
Updated March 2005