Caring for someone who is in pain can be very difficult and stressful. It’s natural to feel upset and helpless at times – it can be distressing to watch someone you love suffer.
This page answers some common questions carers might have. If you have other concerns, please see our Caring for Someone with Cancer section or call Cancer Council 13 11 20. You can also contact Carers Australia on 1800 242 636 for support.
Only the person with cancer can feel how much pain they are in. If you have been using a pain scale together, this can help you both communicate about the need for extra doses. The person with cancer may be experiencing breakthrough pain and may need a top-up dose. If this occurs regularly, they should see their doctor again for advice on managing it.
If you’re still worried the person with cancer is taking or wanting to take too much medicine, talk with their doctor about the dose they can safely have and other ways to help manage the pain.
As with all medicines, it is necessary to keep opioids away from children, perhaps in a high cupboard. If a member of your household or a visitor has a drug-dependence problem, it is safest to keep the opioids in a secure place.
When someone signs a legal document, such as a will, they must have capacity. This means they’re aware of what they are signing and fully understand the consequences of doing so.
If a person taking opioids becomes drowsy in the first few days of treatment, it makes sense to delay important decisions until the dose is stabilised and the side effects reduce. Ask your GP or specialist to assess whether the person with cancer is fit to sign a legal document or talk to a lawyer. If you don’t do this, documents can be contested later.
Call a doctor or nurse for advice if the person with cancer:
If the person with cancer becomes unconscious unexpectedly, call the doctor, nurse or 000 immediately. Do not give opioids to an unconscious or very drowsy person.
Reviewed by: Dr Melanie Lovell, Clinical Ass Prof, Medicine, Northern Clinical School, Sydney Medical School, University of Sydney, and Palliative Medicine Consultant Physician, Greenwich Hospital, NSW; Nathaniel Alexander, 13 11 20 Consultant, Cancer Council NSW, NSW; Anne Booms, Palliative Care Nurse Practitioner, Canberra Hospital, ACT; Dr Roger Goucke, Consultant, Department of Pain Management, Specialist Pain Medicine Physician, Sir Charles Gairdner Hospital, and Clinical Ass Prof, School of Medicine and Pharmacology, University of Western Australia, WA; John Marane, Consumer; and Dr Jane Trinca, Director, Barbara Walker Centre for Pain Management, St Vincent’s Hospital, VIC.